Transparency, one’s ability to be transparent according to Webster’s dictionary. I know, never define a word by using the word, as explained by Mrs. Cherry in my 2nd grade class. Transparency means people can see through you to know who you really are, your story. But that can only happen if you are willing to be vulnerable. It requires a great deal of courage, trust, and self confidence. Sharing your story is not easy, particularly if it comes with admitting your hurts and weaknesses. I am not encouraging folks to be transparent with everyone, but to do so with their respective inner circle of family, friends, and confidants.
Speaking about how past hurts, mistakes, and successes have helped to shape you into who you are today provides the opportunity for personal growth and gives others the opportunity to learn from your experiences. That process is never-ending and gets better as you become more confident in your ability to share with others, more transparent. It enables you to release the hurt, discuss the impact of your past mistakes, and share the successes resulting from all your experiences. It gives others a chances to demonstrate that they like you have grown through their hurts, mistakes, and successes. Sharing is caring, caring for yourself and for those within your inner circle. Transparency has helped me be true to myself, family and closest friends. Just a little advice to go!
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